It is time to allow yourself to become the person you were meant to be.
You have always felt it in you. You’re meant for and capable of so much more, but it is like you have hit a ceiling that you just can’t seem to break through. There is a level of success that always seems to be just beyond your reach and at this point you have no idea how to overcome the hindrance. If this sounds like something you deal with keep reading.
Did you know that the biggest hindrance many face in their adult life is themselves? As children, many of us our conditioned to believe we don’t have much control over our lives. This conditioning can come from our parents, guardians, teachers, or just the environment itself. No matter where it comes from, in the end the lesson is the same, “You do not have complete control over your life.”
Right now, you may be thinking, well this is a simple fix. I just need to tell myself that I do have complete control. Yes, that would help, but unfortunately, things are not that simple because generally that belief is not the only one that exists in you. That belief often shares space with other limiting beliefs including “I am not worthy”, “I am not deserving”, “I am not good enough”, “I am not smart enough”.
What makes these limiting beliefs even worse is they can be sneaky. They aren’t blatantly sitting in your conscious mind at all times. They sit in your subconscious mind like Dikembe Mutombo waiting to block your shot, wagging his finger at you while yelling “no, no, no, not today.”
So, what can you do? How can you overcome all of these limiting beliefs so that you can find the success that you know you deserve?
Well, the first step is being honest with yourself. Acknowledging that as a child you may not have had control, but now, as an adult, you have complete control over your life. Recognizing that only you truly have the power to either hinder or free yourself. Recognizing that if you want change, if you want to do better, you have to be open and willing to do what it takes and it is going to take for you to start to train your mind.
You have heard it said old way of thinking equals same result, whereas a new way of thinking will bring new results. It’s time for a new way of thinking that is true to who you wish to become. A way of thinking that helps you get the best out of your life.
The time is now to get out of your own way.